SEXUAL COMMUNICATION IN COUPLES
CO-MU-NI-CA-TION! A basic and vital tool in all our interpersonal relationships.
And even more so when it comes to our partner. Talking about sex has become normalized in our society, but communicating with our partners sometimes doesn't seem like an easy task, we're scared of their reaction or what they'll think. There are even couples who have been together for a long time and assume what their partner likes and have never dared to ask them if there's something else they'd like to try or experience in bed.
We want you to seek to express and know: what you want, how you want it, and when you want it.
But what are we talking about when we refer to sexual communication?
Sexual communication gives rise to an exchange of ideas and opinions between two people. This dialogue takes place around the couple's sexual life and activity, and can occur in different ways and contexts.
Talking about sex directly is not easy.
Sometimes we take our partner's tastes for granted, but to have a healthy sexuality and in the long term it is good to be able to reach agreements that allow both parties to enjoy themselves.
So don't stress yourself out!
We don't want you to see it as an obligation, but rather as a tool to get to know yourself and your partner better. In order for your sexuality to be preserved and to be able to grow in different ways, not communicating can create a monotonous and deficient sexuality.
Communication can be spoken using words or body language, guiding your partner where you want them to go or caress you.
Another very important point is that we all have ways of showing affection. If you know your partner, try to be aware of how he or she shows you affection. It is an indicator of how to reach that person. Always seek sexual satisfaction from both parties! This will surely turn into quality sex.
Finally, before speaking, make sure you find out what new practices you would like to try, what other positions, places, movements... anything goes and you will never know if the other person wants to if you don't ask!
The satisfaction of sexual relations in a couple is directly proportional to the quality of sexual communication that exists.
Happy Monday!!
