What is BDSM?

If you came to this blog it is because you are curious about BDSM practices (Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism and Masochism). If you want to start little by little in this world and you don't know how, below we leave you some great advice.

First, BDSM is practiced at different intensities and you will be the one who gives the order to STOP. It is important to know this before starting, talk to your partner before starting. You must know yourself and know your limits to make BDSM something very pleasurable.

If you want to practice BDSM it doesn't mean that you have to do each and every practice, you decide which ones to practice or if you just want to focus on one.

What is Bondage

It is a French term that translates slavery or captivity. It is an erotic practice that aims to immobilize the other person by means of ropes, harnesses, handcuffs, etc.

Discipline in BDSM

It is the union of rules and norms that are established in the act of submission. Not paying attention to the norm brings with it punishments, for example.

What is Domination

It talks about role-playing where one person takes control or dominates and the other person is dominated or submissive.

What is Submission

It aims to fulfill the wishes and will of the other person. You have to know what role you like to play, and for this you must get involved in role-playing.

What is Sadism

Sadism is a term derived from the Marquis de Sade, a man who spent most of his life in prison due to his sexual scandals. Sadism consists of feeling pleasure by causing physical or psychological pain and suffering in another person. Nowadays, there are many ways to apply sadism. Find out which ones exist and start practicing those that sound most interesting to you.

If you want to start with something simple, try a whip or spank, with these tools you can create a new atmosphere in your intimate relationships and add that extra something you are looking for with BSDM.

What is masochism

It is the behavior that obtains pleasure or excitement through physical or psychological pain, for example, humiliation and domination. Sadism and masochism are two axes of a role-playing game.

We have been led to believe that BDSM is necessarily linked to pain and sadism, treating people who mention it or practice it as sick or weird. Nothing could be further from the truth than this. Or tell me if you have never wanted to be a dominant?

BDSM is a practice of mutual agreement. And this point is very important. All people who engage in these practices have limits and know how far to go with their pleasure. Never forget that for full enjoyment BDSM must be consensual.

To get started in this world of BDSM you need to have a lot of responsibility, imagination, trust in the other person, have a very open mind, want to do it and obviously not lack the accessories.

I recommend you start with bondage. Imagine tying your partner up, depriving them of mobility, and think about what you would do to them if they were in this situation. Start by creating a code word that only the two of you know and give control to your partner. The code word will serve as a STOP when you want to stop the sexual practice you are doing.

If this text helped you a little to understand BDSM and you want to start doing it, I recommend it.

• 1. Communicate with your partner: this is not only important in BDSM but in all your sexuality. Talk, express fantasies, tastes, fetishes, interests… We assure you that your sex life will be different if you start communicating better.
• 2. Get informed and learn together: If you already know what you want to experiment with, do the research together. You can both find information that together will make your new practice much better.
• 3. Equip yourself: And without fear, see what tools you can buy that will help you enjoy it 100%.
• 4. Open your mind: If you decided to practice BSDM, start without fear, you already have the information, the tools and the mutual agreement of your partner.
• 5. Go step by step: Start slowly, increase the intensity little by little so that both parties get to know if they like it, if not, what they want more of, what they want less of...