RED LINES:
We are all different and we like different things, and over time, our tastes and interests change. The same applies to sex.
Would you like to experience something new?
Has your partner mentioned any new sexual practices to break the monotony?
Or on the contrary, do you find maximum pleasure in your favorite position and wouldn't like to change?
None of the positions are good or bad, in sexuality the important thing is that it is something that makes you feel good. Trying more is not much better and not wanting to know other practices does not mean you are boring.
However, if you feel that at some point you would like to experiment, we would like to give you some tips to make your new sexual practice much better.
- Be aware of who you want to experiment with, you must trust them when trying new things since it is something new for at least one of you.
- Define very well how far you want to go, that is your Red Line: your limit up to where you want to go, your pain threshold, and
- Another vital point regarding these new sexual practices is knowing what you definitely DO NOT want to experiment with in your intimacy. There are many sexual practices, but you must be very clear about which ones are not for you and which ones you would like to experiment with.
The same goes for your partner, he must be clear about what he wants to do and what he doesn't, when and how. With this, you will be on target when it comes to enjoying yourself.
- GET INFORMED! Before you start playing, practice any game. There are courses, check the website, there are also specialists. Start with the basics and if you like it, you can add intensity.
There are a thousand ways to live your sexuality, countless positions, places, fetishes, toys... To fully enjoy your new experiences you must be open to change, want to take risks and enjoy curiosity.
But don't be ashamed to say you don't want to, if you know that this practice will not be satisfactory for you. Communication with the other person and the self-love you have for yourself play a very important role here.
