How to tell your partner you want to use sex toys
When it comes to sexuality as a couple, it can sometimes be difficult to come up with new ideas or suggestions to include in the midst of our intimacy. In particular, talking about the use of sex toys can be a sensitive topic in some families. You may be afraid that your partner won't agree or think it's not enough to satisfy you.
However, using sex toys can be a fun and exciting way to explore new experiences in intimacy as a couple. Here are some tips for broaching the topic with your partner.
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Establish an honest and sincere conversation: It is always important to have open communication with your partner in all areas of the relationship, including sexuality. Open the conversation in a respectful manner and explain your concerns honestly. Speak from the “I” point of view instead of accusing or blaming your partner.
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Explain why you want to use sex toys: When you suggest using sex toys to your partner, it's important to give them a clear and honest explanation of why you'd like to explore this option. Talk about your fantasies and desires and how using sex toys can be a way to fulfill them together.
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Find the right time: Find a time when you are both relaxed and comfortable to bring up the topic. Avoid doing so during or after an argument or when your partner is distracted.
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Be respectful of your partner's response: Not everyone is comfortable with using sex toys, so it's important to respect your partner's response. If they're not interested, don't push or pressure them. Find other ways to get your needs met together.
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Shop for sex toys together: Once you've talked to your partner about your desires and they've agreed to the idea, it's important to shop for sex toys together. This can be an exciting and fun experience for both of you, and it helps you both feel comfortable and empowered in your new exploration. Our stores have a display full of toys so you can feel how they vibrate, touch the material, and get to know all the qualities they have.
Don't be afraid to explore new forms of intimacy with your partner. Using sex toys can be a way to enhance your emotional and physical connection with your partner. Always remember to have honest and respectful communication in all areas of your relationship, including sexuality.
