How to do ANAL SEX

Have you heard about the pleasure of anal sex but don't know how to start? Do you want to try it but don't know how? Today we are going to talk to you as directly as possible, since we know that there are many taboos and fears regarding this subject and it is normal to feel this way.

Let's start by clarifying that it is not a practice exclusive to the gay or LGBTI community. It is a sexual experience like any other that can bring you a lot of pleasure. There is also the belief that it is painful, but if it is done with the right tools, this will not be the case for you.

Anal Lubrication

This topic has been discussed before and applies to anal sex as well. We know that the anus does not lubricate on its own, so an anal lubricant will make your experience a success. Why an anal lubricant? These lubricants have special components that make the anal area relax and dilate, in addition to lubrication, making penetration easier.

Communication in couples

Talking to your partner is vital to making the experience fun. We know it can be scary, but if you trust the other person it will be easier to relax and express how you feel. Remember if you feel pain or discomfort, express it so that it does not end in an uncomfortable experience.

Anal arousal and masturbation

Anal penetration is not as easy as vaginal penetration, so arousal is doubly important. You can help yourself with a lot of lubricant and patience. Before penetration, start to caress and stimulate the area with your fingers. Don't do anything forced, and do it slowly. Ask how it feels and acknowledge the sensations. You can generate more arousal by simultaneously stimulating the clitoris, the vaginal lips, the penis or the testicles.

Anal Toys

Sexually, help is never a bad idea. There are special toys for this area: anal plugs, prostate stimulators, vibrators, lubricants... All designed to help relax and dilate the anal area before sex. Tip: You can enjoy this stimulation without reaching penetration, it is also very pleasurable.

Anal Hygiene

Another big question on this topic is the prior preparation, since we know that it is an area that can have bacteria. As recommendations we have:

Always remember that a sexual practice must be consensual and mutual. And to conclude, always trying something new helps you discover if you like it or not, so dare to discover more about your sexuality.

We hope this space can be very helpful for you! And share it if you think it can be useful to someone!