SEXUAL FANTASIES
Do you constantly have sexual fantasies? Or, on the contrary, do not many come to mind?
Sexual fantasies are those desires that arise in our minds and have a sexual component. Having fantasies is healthy, it is a normal part of the expression of our sexuality.
Sometimes social rules make us think that it is not right and repress our fantasies, but these increase our sexual creativity, there are no rules here!
It is important to clarify that these may or may not come true, or that since they are fantasies of our mind, we may or may not really want to carry them out.
Note: 9 out of 10 people fantasize sexually
Now let's find out what the most common fantasies are!
Because as we told you it is normal to have them:
Sexual fantasies in women
Women tend to be more imaginative, emotional and romantic. They place more importance on the plot and tend to choose a more passive role. Typical fantasies are:
Fantasy of BEING WATCHED:
Many women fantasize about having sex in places where it is easy to see them. Sexual desire is triggered by the thought of being watched while having sex. In addition, we get aroused by seeing ourselves in mirrors while having sex.
fantasizing about BEING A 'BAD' GIRL:
We want to get out of the role of good women full of responsibilities, and we fantasize about a time when we can be and act like a "bad" girl.
FANTASIZING ABOUT BEING DOMINATED OR BECOMING A SUPER DOMINATRIX:
This is closely related to the issue of power. Many women want to receive more orders in bed. On the other hand, being a dominatrix implies a desire for power, this position allows us to command the other and have that moment of domination.
Sexual fantasies in men
When we talk about men's fantasies, they are more related to visual and action themes. The most common ones are
They fantasize about having a THREESOME:
This is the number one male sexual fantasy. Many men dream of being in a sexual relationship involving two other people, usually two women. It turns them on to think of them playing with each other. Also, many times, one is someone they know and the third person is a stranger.
They fantasize about having SEX IN PUBLIC PLACES
The excitement of the forbidden, the tension of being discovered, the unusual places, are part of this sexual fantasy.
Fantasy of having SEX WITH A FAMOUS PERSON:
YES! They dream of having sex with famous people, whether you are excited by their voice, physique, personality or level of fame. In fantasies, anything goes!
Don't forget to enjoy your fantasies, and don't hold back. If you have a partner, talk to him or her and be open about these desires. You may agree on some and want to make them come true. This helps increase trust and fun between you.
